Your love is worth it, is what the Persogenics for couples claims. Persogenics is a type of personality test that explains our personality differences in terms of communication styles: dominant, expressive, amiable or analytical. Again, like all personality tests I've run into, these ways of being are with us from the beginning and stick throughout our lives.
What persogenics seeks to do is establish a common language between couples. This depersonalizes conflicts and focusses discussion on actions and words rather than on us. "The heart of Persogenics for Couples is modification, understanding and temporarily modifying behavior to communicate to others without diminishing the self," so says Michael Cheney developer of Persogenics for Couples.
Once you understand your partners communication pattern you can modify your behavior in relation to it. This understanding of how I see things and therefore communicate vs. how my partner does is VERY enlightening and helpful.
Those personality tests that help me understand others better and increase someone's understanding of me are terrific tools. Life would really stink without at least a few close relationships and understanding is the key.
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